Christian liberty was allowed, not for our pleasure, but for the glory of God, and the good of others. We must please our neighbour, for the good of his soul; not by serving his wicked will, and humouring him in a sinful way; if we thus seek to please men, we are not the servants of Christ. Christ's whole life was a self-denying, self-displeasing life. And he is the most advanced Christian, who is the most conformed to Christ.
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Matthew Henry’s Commentary: Bible Hub (Bold emphasis added.)
https://biblehub.com/commentaries/mhc/romans/15.htm | also as quoted in David R. Hocking’s The New Testament of Jesus Christ, Annotated Edition, p. 253)
Matthew Henry (18 October 1662 – 22 June 1714) was a British Nonconformist minister and author who was born in Wales but spent much of his life in England. He is best known for the six-volume biblical commentary Exposition of the Old and New Testaments.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Henry